Treating of Bad Thoughts in Islam
Waswas (Insinuating
Thoughts from Shaytan)
A person may ask: “I am suffering from many
insinuating thoughts (waswas) about the nature of Allah, may
He be glorified. There are thoughts going around in my mind that I
cannot utter because they are not befitting to Allah, and they keep coming back
to me, when I am praying and at other times. It is so bad that I doubt my
faith, and wonder if I am even a Muslim or not. What is the cure for this
problem?”
A number of ahadith have been reported from the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) which contain the answer to this problem, Alhamdulillah.
The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“The Shaytan may come to any one of you and say, ‘Who created
Allah?’ If any one of you experiences this, let him say, ‘amantu billahi wa
rasulih (I believe in Allah and His Messenger),’ and that will drive him away.” [Sahih al-Jami’, 1657] The
Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) said: “The Shaytan may come to any
one of you and ask, ‘Who created the heaven?’ and he will say, ‘Allah.’ The
Shaytan will say, ‘Who created the earth?’ and he will say, ‘Allah.’ Then the
Shaytan will say, ‘Who created Allah?’ If any one of you experiences this, let
him say, ‘amantu billahi wa rasulih.’ “ [Sahih al-Jami’, 1656]
The Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Whoever experiences anything of this waswas, let him say three
times, ”amantu billahi wa rasoolih,’ and that will drive (the Shaytan) away.” [Sahih al-Jami’, 6587]
The Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The Shaytan may come to any one of you, and say, ‘Who created
such-and-such? Who created such-and-such?’ until he asks, ‘Who created your
Lord?’ If this happens to anyone, let him seek refuge with Allah and let him
stop these thoughts.” [Sahih
al-Jami’, 7993]
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said: “The people will nearly ask too many questions, so that one of
them may say, ‘Allah created all of creation, but who created Allah?’ If they
say this, then say: ‘Allah is the One, Allah is the Self-Sufficient Master. He begets
not, nor was He begotten; and there is none co-equal or comparable unto Him’ [Al-Qur’an 112:1-4,
interpretation of the meaning], and spit (drily) to your left three times, and seek refuge with
Allah from the Shaytan.” [Sahih al-Jami’, 8182]
The Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Think about the signs of Allah, do not think about Allah
(Himself).” [Sahih
al-Jami’, 2975]
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said:“Think about the creation of Allah, do not think about Allah
(Himself).” [Sahih al-Jami’, 2976]
From these texts we may summarize the following
six ways of overcoming these insinuating thoughts:
1.
The
person who is experiencing such ideas should say, “Amantu billahi wa rasulih (I believe in Allah
and His Messenger).”
2.
He
should seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytan, and say three
times, “A’udhu billahi’l-Sami’
il-‘Alim min ash-Shaytan ir-rajim, min hamzihi wa nafkhihi wa nafathih (I seek
refuge with Allah, the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing, from the accursed Shaytan,
and from his slander and evil insinuations).”
3.
He
should spit (drily) to his left three times.
4.
He
should stop thinking about whatever it is that is on his mind, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said: “Let him stop.” This
is an important tactic, because continuing to allow the Shaytan to influence
one in this way can only make it worse. The Muslim must stop these thoughts, as
much as he is able, and keep his mind busy with something useful and
beneficial.
5.
He
should recite Surah Al-Ikhlas (Qul huwa Allahu ahad), because it describes
attributes of the Most Merciful and is considered to be equivalent to one-third
of the Qur’an. Reciting
this great Surah will
guarantee an end to these insinuating thoughts.
6.
He
should think about the creation and blessings of Allah, not about His nature,
because his weak human mind can never comprehend the nature of Allah. Allah
says (interpretation of the meaning): ” … and they will never compass anything of His Knowledge.” [Al-Qur’an 20:110]
Staying Up Late
We have received so many questions about this
problem that we know it is crying out for a solution. So many people are
wasting so much time in staying up late at night.
But the truth of the matter is that this
phenomenon is not homogenous. There are three kinds of staying up late:
(1) Staying up late to worship Allah. This is
the worthy kind of staying up. It includes staying up for reasons that are of
benefit to the Muslims in general, such as engaging in jihad and guarding the
borders of Islam, as well as staying up to pray (qiyam al-layl) and read Qur’an. Allah says (interpretation
of the meaning): “They used to sleep but little
by night [invoking their Lord and praying, with fear and hope].” [Al-Qur’an 51:17].
We should not forget, in this context, the
great Sahabi who was
guarding the Muslims at night, and spent his time on guard duty praying. He was
struck by an arrow fired by the mushrikin,
and his blood began to flow, but he kept on praying, enjoying his contact with
his Lord.
It is reported that some of the scholars used to
discuss hadith until
the sun came up. Some of the sincere da’iyah (callers,
Islamic workers) still stay up at night discussing matters that keep those who
care about the ummah awake.
An example of this is what happened with Shaykh ‘Abdul-Hamid ibn Badis and Shaykh Al-Bashir al-Ibrahimi,
the founders of the Muslim scholars’ organization (Jam’iyat al-‘Ulama’ al-Muslimin) in Algeria. During
their time in Madinah, they used to stay up all night, until Fajr time, discussing the
state of the Muslim ummah and
the bid’ah, myths and
backwardness in which it had ended up, and planning how they would rescue
Algerian society from this sorry state.
This kind of staying up is entirely worthy, so
long as it does not lead to the neglect of something more important or more
obligatory. Some people may stay up for a legitimate purpose, then miss Fajr prayers. This is a
mistake.
(2) Staying up for a permissible reason. This is
fine, as long as it does not lead to the neglect of something obligatory. This
includes, for example, travellers staying up to talk to one another, in order
to relieve the tedium of travel. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would stay
up to talk to one of his wives and keep her company, when they were on a journey.
This also includes talking to one’s guests and
keeping them company.
Also included is the staying up involved in
modern-day shift work, created by the demands of materialistic circumstances.
No doubt some of the interests of the Muslims demand the work of people at
night, such as those who work in the security forces, in hospitals and
airports, in supplying electricity, and so on.
(3) Staying up to commit sin, such as staying up
to watch movies, to play haram games such as cards, or to consume the flesh of
others by gossiping and backbiting and slandering, and other kinds of sin. This
kind of staying up is haram, and those who do it are sinners who deserve the
punishment of Allah. Their number has increased in modern times, for the
reasons mentioned by the poet:
“Youth, idleness and good health, corrupt man in such a bad way!”
It is important to distinguish between one type
of staying up and the other.
The habit of staying up late at night has become
widespread in our times for a number of reasons, including the following:
·
Staying
up for worldly purposes, as in the case of some traders and businessmen who
stay up late putting their affairs in order, or students who stay up to study.
People in this situation should try to organize their time so that they will
not need to stay up late and can thus avoid its bad consequences.
·
The
nature of modern life and the social changes which it has wrought. Earlier
generations used to slow down and go to sleep when darkness fell, but the
presence of electricity in modern times had led to people doing many
activities, kinds of work and social activities that they never used to do
during the hours of darkness. In some cases, people’s nights have become just
like their days.
·
Many
people’s indulgence in the arts and media, by means of TV, radio, video, etc.
·
Many
people make their visits to family and friends, or organize programs etc., at
nighttime, because of the nature of their work and studies. So you rarely find
anyone who will visit you during the day, except at the weekend. Even
gatherings for the pursuit of Islamic knowledge are mostly held after ‘Isha’ prayers.
·
Some
people indulge to excess in idle chatter and trivial discussions, even
disturbing others with their talk and laughter. This phenomenon is perhaps most
obvious among students living in university residences, where some inconsiderate
visitors stay up late talking about who said what, causing harm to themselves
and others, then neglecting many of their duties.
·
Insomnia,
which is often caused by indulgence in sin and being far away from Allah. Being
far away from Allah means that a person can never feel content or at peace, but
will be dogged by constant anxiety, alienation and confusion.
·
Problems
with one’s family, money, studies or work, etc., also have a clear role in
causing anxiety and insomnia, until they are resolved.
·
Also,
we should not ignore the fact that there are those who are prevented from
enjoying the calm of sleep by insomnia that is caused by the fear of Allah and
the keen desire to reform this enslaved ummah.
Having examined the types of staying up late,
and explained the reasons for it, we may now turn to ways of treating this
widespread problem.
Treatment from the theoretical point of view:
We should think about the physical harm that may
be caused by staying up late and its detrimental effect on many of our
interests, such as:
Neglect of Islamic duties, such as missing Fajr prayer, whether by not
managing to attend the prayer in congregation, or by missing the prayer
altogether and having to make it up later, or by praying in congregation but
without the necessary concentration because of feeling so exhausted that one is
left fighting sleep and failing to understand what is being said. So a person
may not even know what the imam is
reciting, or which rak’ah he
is praying, or what he is saying at the various stages of the prayer. For this
reason, the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) forbade conversing after ‘Isha’.
Physical harm may result from making the night a
time for activity and the day for resting, contrary to the natural rhythm which
Allah has created in the universe and in mankind. Allah says (interpretation of
the meanings):
“And
[We] have made the night as a covering [through its darkness], and have made
the day for livelihood.” [Al-Qur’an78:10-11]
“Say: ‘Tell me! If Allah made
night continuous for you till the Day of Resurrection, who is an ilah [a
god] besides Allah who could bring you light? … ‘ “ [Al-Qur’an 28:71]
“Say: ‘Tell me! If Allah made
day continuous for you till the Day of Resurrection, who is an ilah [a
god] besides Allah who could bring you night wherein you rest? … “ [Al-Qur’an 28:71]
So we find people who have gone astray and gone
against their innate nature (fitrah) suffering from ill health. One hour of sleep
at night is worth twice as many at any other time, as is well known from
experience.
Many employees fall short in their work (as a
result of staying up late). A man may come to work late, exhausted, and put in
a poor performance, treating clients badly. It may be so bad that there is even
doubt that his salary is entirely halal, because of his shoddy work.
The same applies to students who stay up late,
and come late to school or university the next day, not caring if they have
missed their early classes and barely understanding anything that is said in
the classes they do attend.
Staying up late may cause a person to sleep at
inappropriate times, such as sleeping after ‘asr. The salaf (early
generations of theummah) used to
dislike sleeping after ‘asr unless
there was a need for it – but if it is necessary, there is nothing wrong with
doing so. Moreover, sleeping after ‘asr can
cause headaches, and make it difficult to get to sleep at night.
Staying up late makes it difficult to do some
voluntary acts of worship, such as devoting the last third of the night to
prayer, or getting up to eat suhur prior
to observing a voluntary fast – how can those who stay up late manage to do
these things? There is no doubt that exhaustion would prevent them from getting
up, and so they deprive themselves of a great deal of good.
Missing out on the blessing of getting up early
in the day. Those who stay up late sleep until after Fajr, thus missing out on
the time of which the Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The early morning has been blessed for my ummah.”[Sahih al-Jami’, 2841] These people
cannot stay in the mosque until sunrise in order to remember Allah, or go out
early to earn their living during the time of blessing and virtue. This has
become so widespread that in the mornings you can hardly see anyone who will
open his store or business early.
When the wise person realizes the kinds of harm
that result from staying up late, and the great loss that befalls him as a
result, no doubt he will try his utmost to reform himself and make up for what
he has missed. Thus he will take the first step towards solving the problem.
There follow a number of practical steps which
can be followed by anyone who wants to solve this problem:
1.
Trying hard to get used to sleeping early
Staying up late is basically a habit, and if
anyone is prepared to struggle against his own self (jihad an-nafs) with determination,
he can win the struggle in a few days, by the grace of Allah, and join the
ranks of those who sleep early.
2. Getting married
Many single young men are quite disorganized,
staying up late together and encouraging one another to do so, as they have no
wives or children to think about. But the one who is married feels his
responsibility towards his wife and children, so he is keen to go back to them
early so that they will not worry about him, or feel afraid if they need him in
the middle of the night, when he is away. Anyone who has experience of this
will understand.
3.
Strengthening one’s feelings of responsibility in all areas will also be of
help
When a man feels the burden of responsibility on
his shoulders, he has no choice but to fulfil it. He will not be able to waste
time, unlike those careless people who squander the vast treasure of time in
trivial matters and have no appreciation for the value of time.
4.
Adopting the habit of taking a siesta, instead of sleeping at the wrong times
Sleeping after ‘asr or before ‘Isha’ is a harmful practice, as we have mentioned
above. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) advised his ummah to
take naps: “Take a siesta, for the
shayatin (devils) do not take siestas.” [Sahih al-Jami’, 4431]
These are a few of the practical measures which
one can take to combat the problem of staying up late. And Allah is the One Who
guides to the Straight Path.
Short Temper
A person may complain: “I get very angry very
quickly. If there is the slightest provocation, I quickly explode and start to
break things, swear, curse and issue threats of divorce. This problem has
caused me so much embarrassment, and has made most people hate me, even my wife
and children and closest friends. What can I do to rid myself of this awful
disease and extinguish this devilish fire?”
Anger is a tendency that comes from the Shaytan.
Only Allah knows how much evil and sin results from it. Hence Islam has a great
deal to say about this negative characteristic and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
described remedies for ridding oneself of this problem and limiting its
effects. These include the following:
1.
Seeking refuge with Allah from the Shaytan
Sulayman ibn Sard said: “I was sitting with the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him), and there were two men swearing at one another. One of
them was red in the face and the veins of his neck were standing out. The
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) said: ‘I know a word which, if only
he would say it, this [anger] would leave him. If he said, ‘A’udhu billahi min
ash-shaytan (I seek refuge with Allah from the Shaytan),’, this [anger] would
leave him.’ ” [Reported by Al-Bukhari, Al-Fath, 6/377] He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
also said: “If a man gets angry and says
‘A’udhu billah (I seek refuge with Allah),’ his anger will cease.” [Sahih al-Jami’ as-Saghir, no. 695]
2. Keeping quiet
The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If any one of you gets angry, let him keep quiet.” [Reported
by ImamAhmad, Al-Musnad, 1/239; Sahih al-Jami’, 693, 4027] Anger
usually makes a person lose control, often to the extent that he may utter
words of kufr (Allah
forbid), or curses, or the word of divorce (talaq)
which will destroy his family, or foul language that will earn him the enmity
of others. Keeping quiet is the way to avoid all of these evils.
3. Keeping still
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said: “If any one of you gets angry,
let him sit down if he is standing. If his anger goes away, (that is good),
otherwise let him lie down.”
The narrator of this hadith was Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him),
who told the following story: he was watering his animals at a trough, when
some other people came along. He said, “Who among you will help Abu Dharr to
water his animals and … ?” A man said, “I will,” but he broke the trough. Abu
Dharr was standing, so he sat down, then he lay down. Someone asked him, “O Abu
Dharr, why did you sit down then lie down?” He said, “Because the Messenger of
Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) said … (and quoted the hadith).” [The hadith with
the whole story is reported in Musnad
Ahmad, 5/152. See also Sahih
al-Jami’, no. 694]
According to another report, Abu Dharr was
watering his animals at a trough when another man made him angry, so he sat
down … [Fayd al-Qadir al-Mannawi,
1/408].
One of the benefits of this Prophetic teaching
is that it prevents the angry person from doing something crazy and out of
control. An angry person could inflict harm or even kill – as we shall see
shortly – or he could destroy property and so on. Sitting down makes it less
likely that he will explode in this fashion, and lying down makes it even less
likely that he will do something reckless or harmful. Al-‘Allamah Al-Khattabi (may Allah have mercy on him) said
in his commentary on Abu Dawud: “The one
who is standing is ready to move and destroy things. The one who is sitting is
less likely to do so, and the one who is lying is not able to do anything of
the sort. It seems that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) commanded the angry person to sit down or lie down in order to
prevent him from doing anything that he would later regret. And Allah knows best.” [Sunan
Abi Dawud wa Ma’ahu Ma’alim As-Sunan, 5/141]
4.
Remembering the advice of the Messenger of Allah
Abu Hurayrah (may
Allah be pleased with him) reported that a man came to the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) and said: “Advise me.” He said: “Do not become angry.” The man repeated his
request several times, and each time the response was, “Do not become angry.” [Reported by
Al-Bukhari, Fath al-Bari,
10/465]
According to another report, the man said, “I
thought about what the Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) had said, and I realized that
anger is the source of all evil.” [Musnad
Ahmad, 5/373]
“Do not get angry, and Paradise
will be yours.” [A sahih hadith.Sahih al-Jami’, 7374. Ibn Hajar
attributed it to At-Tabarani. See Al-Fath,
4/465]
5.
Remembering what Allah has promised
To those who avoid the causes of anger and
strive to control themselves is the best way to extinguish the flames of anger.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) has told us about this great reward: “Whoever suppresses his anger at the time when he could express it
openly, Allah will fill his heart with contentment on the Day of Resurrection.” [Reported
by At-Tabarani, 12/453; Sahih
al-Jami’, 176]
Another immense reward is described in the hadith: “Whoever suppresses his anger when he is able to vent it, Allah
will call him before all the people on the Day of Resurrection and let him
choose whoever of the hur al-‘iyn he wishes.” [Reported by
Abu Dawud, 4777, and others. Classed as hasan in Sahih al-Jami’, 6518]
6.
Knowing the high rank and distinction that is bestowed upon the one who
controls himself
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said, “The strong man is not the one
who can wrestle another to the ground; the strong man is the one who can
control himself when he is angry.” [Reported by Ahmad,
2/236. The hadith is
agreed upon] The more angry a person gets, the more highly valued is his
self-control. The Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The real strong man is the one who gets intensely angry, so that
his face reddens and his hair stands on end, but he suppresses his anger.” [Reported
by Imam Ahmad,
5/367; classed ashasan in Sahih al-Jami’, 3859] The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) used an incident that took place in front of hisSahabah as an opportunity to
reinforce this lesson. Anas reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
passed by some people who were wrestling, and asked, “What is this?”They told him, “So-and-so is a strong
man. No one challenges him but he beats them at wrestling.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said, “Shall I not tell you who is
stronger than him? A man who is mistreated by another, but suppresses his
anger, has defeated his own shaytan and the shaytan of the one who mistreated
him.” [Reported by Al-Bazzar. Ibn Hajar said that its isnad is hasan. Al-Fath, 10/519]
7.
Following the guidance of the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) with regard to anger
He is our example, and his attitude towards
anger is clearly demonstrated in many ahadith,
of which one of the most famous was reported by Anas (may Allah be pleased with him),
who said: “I was walking with the
Messenger of Allah (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him), and he was wearing a Najrani cloak with a stiff collar. He was
accosted by a Bedouin who pulled his cloak roughly. I looked at the Prophet’s
neck and saw the marks left by the collar. The Bedouin said: ‘O Muhammad, give
me some of the wealth of Allah that you have!’ The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) turned to him and smiled, and ordered that he should be given
something.” [Reported by Al-Bazzar. Ibn Hajar said that itsisnad is hasan]
Another way in which we may follow the example
of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) is by making our anger for the sake of Allah, when the
limits set by Allah are violated. This is the worthy kind of anger. The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) became angry when he was told about the imam who was
putting people off praying because his recitation was too long. He became angry
when he saw a curtain decorated with pictures of animate creatures in
‘A’ishah’s house. He became angry when Usamah spoke to him about the Makhzumi woman who was guilty
of theft, and said to him, “Are you interceding concerning one of the
punishments prescribed by Allah?” He became angry when he was asked questions
he disliked. His anger was only for the sake of Allah.
8.
Knowing that suppressing anger is one of the signs oftaqwa (piety)
Allah has praised certain people in His Book,
and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) highly commended them. There have been prepared for them
Gardens as wide as the heavens and the earth. One of their characteristics is
that they ” … spend (in Allah’s Cause) in
prosperity and in adversity, [they] repress anger, and pardon men; verily,
Allah loves al-muhsinoon (the good-doers).” [Al-Qur’an 3:134 –
interpretation of the meaning]. These are the people whose good qualities Allah
has mentioned, people whom others admire and want to catch up with. Another of
their characteristics is that “when they are angry, they
forgive.” [Al-Qur’an 42:37
– interpretation of the meaning]
9.
Paying attention when one is reminded
Anger is something natural, with regard to which
people differ. It may be very hard for a person not to get angry, but a sincere
person, if he becomes angry and is reminded about Allah, will remember Him and
will stay within the limits that He has prescribed. Some examples of this
follow.
Ibn ‘Abbas (may
Allah be pleased with them both) reported that a man asked
permission to see ‘Umar (may
Allah be pleased with him), and permission was given. The man said,
“O son of al-Khattab, by Allah, you are not giving us much, and you are not
ruling us fairly!” ‘Umar (may
Allah be pleased with him) became so angry that he was about to hit
the man, but Al-Hirr ibn Qays (who was among the people sitting with ‘Umar)
said, “O Amir al-Mu’minin,
Allah said to His Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allah be upon him): ‘Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the
foolish (i.e., don’t punish them)’ [Al-Qur’an 7:199 –
interpretation of the meaning], and this man is one of the foolish.” By Allah,
‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him)
did not take the matter any further when this was recited to him. He adhered to
the words of Allah, may
He be Glorified and Exalted. [Reported by Al-Bukhari, Al-Fath, 8/304] This is how the
Muslim should be, not like the evil hypocrite who, when he got angry and was
told about the hadith of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him), and was advised by one of the Companions of the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) to seek refuge with Allah from the Shaytan, said, “Do you
think there is something wrong with me? Do you think I am crazy? Go away!”
[Reported by Al-Bukhari, Al-Fath,
1/465] We seek refuge with Allah from failure.
10.
Knowing the bad effects of anger
The bad effects of anger are many, harming both
the self and others. A person may swear and utter obscenities, and may hit
others, lashing out with no control. It may even lead to killing. The following
story contains a lesson.
‘Alqamah ibn Wa’il reported that his father (may Allah be pleased with him)
told him: “I was sitting with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
when a man came along, leading another by a twisted rope. He said, ‘O Messenger
of Allah, this man killed my brother.’ The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
asked, ‘Did you kill him?’ He
said, ‘Yes, I killed him.’ He asked, ‘How did you kill him?’ He said, ‘He and I were
hitting trees to make the leaves fall (so we could use them for animal fodder).
He swore at me, so I got angry and hit him on the side of the head with an axe,
and I killed him.’ … ” [Reported by Muslim in As-Sahih, 1307]
Even if anger does not go as far as this, there
may still be broken bones and injuries. If the person with whom a man is angry
runs away, he may turn his anger upon himself, tearing his clothes, slapping
his cheeks, falling unconscious, or breaking dishes and furniture.
One of the worst things that result from anger
and cause social ills and family breakdown is talaq (divorce). Ask many of those who have
divorced their wives how and when it happened, and they will tell you, “It was
in a moment of anger.”
Lives are shattered and children are lost as a
result. Feelings of regret and failure haunt people’s minds, and life becomes
bitter – all because of anger. If only they had remembered Allah and come back
to their senses, restrained their anger and sought refuge with Allah from the
Shaytan, what happened would not have happened. Going against sharee’ah only
ever results in loss.
The physical harm that results from anger is
very serious, as the doctors describe, such as thrombosis, high blood pressure,
fatal heart attacks, diabetes, etc. We ask Allah for good health.
12.
The angry person should think about himself at the time of anger
If the angry person could see himself in the
mirror at the time of anger, he would despise himself and how he looks when his
colour changes, he shakes uncontrollably, his face reddens, the veins of his
neck stand out and he behaves like a crazy person. He would be put off by his
own appearance, but it is well known that the ugliness that exists inside a
person is even worse than any that may appear on the outside. How happy the
Shaytan must be when someone is in this state! We seek refuge with Allah from
the Shaytan and from failure.
Du’a’
This is the believer’s constant weapon. He asks
his Lord to rid him of evils, problems and bad characteristics, and he seeks
refuge with Allah from falling into the pit of kufr and wrongdoing caused by anger, because one
of the three qualities which will save a person from Hellfire is being just and
fair both at times of contentment and at times of anger. [Sahih al-Jami’, 3039] One of
the du’a’ of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) was:
“Allahumma bi ‘ilmika’l-ghaybi
wa qudratika ‘ala’l-khalqi ahini ma ‘alimta’l-hayata khayran li, wa tawaffani
idha ‘alimta’l-wafata khayran li. Allahumma wa as’aluka khashyataka fi’l-ghaybi
wa’l-shahadah, wa as’aluka kalimat al-ikhlasi fi’l-rida wa’l-ghadab, wa
as’aluka’l-qasda fi’l-faqri wa’l-ghina, wa as’aluka na’iman la yanfad, wa
qurrata ‘aynin la tanqati’, wa as’aluka’l-rida bi’l-qada’, wa as’aluka bard
al-‘aysh ba’d al-mawt, wa as’aluka ladhdhat al-nadhr ila wajhika wa’l-shawqa
ila liqa’ik, fi ghayri darra’ mudirrah wa la fitnati mudillah. Allahumma zayyinna
bi zinati’l-iman wa’j’alna hudatan muhtadin (O Allah, by Your knowledge of the
Unseen and Your power over all creation, keep me alive so long as You know life
is good for me, and bring about my death when you know death is good for me. O
Allah, I ask You to make me fear You in secret and in the open, I ask You to
make me speak sincerely at times of contentment and at times of anger, I ask
You to make me be moderate in poverty and in wealth, I ask You for a blessing
that does not end, contentment that never ceases, and for acceptance of Your
decree. I ask You for a good life after death, and I ask You for the joy of
looking upon Your face and the longing to meet You, with no harmful adversity
or misleading trial (fitnah). O Allah, adorn us with the beauty of faith, guide
us and let us be a means of guidance for others).”[Reported by An-Nisa’i
in As-Sunan, 3/55; and
by Al-Hakim.Sahih al-Jami’,
1301]
Praise be to Allah, Lord of the
Worlds.
Shaitani Waswaso se Bachne ki Dua
English Transliteration:
“Aaoozu BillahiSameei’L A’leemi Minashshaitanir Rajeem Min
Hamzihee Wa Naf Khihee Wa Nafsihee”
Recite this dua as much as you can, and take
care to remain in the state of purity.
English Translation:
I seek refuge with Allah, the All-Hearing, the
All-Knowing, from the accursed Shaytan, and from his slander and evil
insinuations.
Urdu Translation:
Me Allah ki panah chahta hu. Shaitian mardood
se. Iske Maghroor batane se. Iske Tauk se or iske choka lagane se.
Wazifa in Urdu:
Ajkal ke daur me zyadatar shaitani waswase ane
ki pareshani bhot aam hogyi. Har waqt pak rahiye.
or upar di hui dua padte rahiye. InshaAllah apki ye pareshani hal hojayegi,
Amin.
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